Confident and not afraid to go after what I want. Don't have the time or energy to wait for it to come to me. We will never get today back, and no one is promised tomorrow. So get the most out of everyday so you don't go to bed with "I wish I....I should've" moments. My kids are are my life, but they don't consume my life. When I'm a mom, I'm a mom. When I have my off time...well, others have a hard time keeping up with me.